Dig It with Jo Whiley and Zoe Ball
Dig It with Jo Whiley and Zoe Ball

Sara Pascoe: ADHD, Female Rage & School WhatsApps

August 12, 2026

Summary

⏱️ 13 min read

Overview

Sarah Pascoe joins Zoe Ball to discuss the realities of parenting young children, from holiday challenges and school preparation to navigating ADHD diagnoses and the pressures modern parents face. They share candid stories about tantrums, school gates anxiety, and the emotional journey of watching children grow up, while also recommending compelling TV shows and books about female rage and complex relationships.

Holiday Realities with Young Children

Sarah reveals she's avoiding holidays abroad with her two-year-old and four-year-old because it's too stressful, opting instead for Chessington theme park. The conversation explores the exhausting reality of traveling with small children versus the fantasy of relaxing holidays, touching on constant drowning vigilance and the impossibility of actually reading a book poolside. They discuss the outrageous costs of theme parks and the controversial queue-jumping payment tiers that create inequality among families.

  • Sarah hasn't taken a holiday abroad since having children because it's not actually relaxing with a two-year-old and four-year-old
  • They're going to Chessington for two nights, which costs more than a week in Greece
  • Theme parks now have three tiers of queue jumping, costing around £80 to skip ahead
  • Constant vigilance is needed with young children near pools - Albie would just jump in
" It's a queue. We're British. Get in the queue. Get at the back of the goddamn line and queue like the rest of us. Suck it up. That's what it is. "
" Does it work? Does it work, the reasoning? It doesn't work, but I think the understanding is they are irrational. The child is irrational. And they do just need the boundary to be kept. You're the pilot. "

The Cost of Family Entertainment

The hosts discuss the shocking expense of family entertainment, particularly theme parks where costs extend beyond admission to food, drinks, and now multiple tiers of queue-jumping passes. Sarah expresses moral objection to the three-tier system where wealthier families can pay £80 to skip queues while others watch them pass by. The conversation highlights how family fun has become increasingly commercialized and inaccessible.

  • Food and drink markup at theme parks creates unfair burden on parents
  • Three tiers of queue jumping cost around £80 to push ahead of other families
  • Watching other people go faster because they paid more feels fundamentally wrong
  • Kids are funneled through shops immediately after rides, which should be illegal
" I don't agree with it. I don't agree that either you have to spend more and then your day is better, or you're standing in a queue watching other people going faster than you. "

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