Making Sense with Sam Harris
Making Sense with Sam Harris

#484 — Artificial Intimacy

July 08, 2026

Summary

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Overview

Sam Harris and Paul Bloom discuss the rapid advancement of AI technology, exploring its implications for consciousness, human relationships, loneliness, and the future. They examine how quickly society has adapted to AI capabilities that seemed impossible just years ago, including passing the Turing test. The conversation delves into the psychological and social dimensions of AI companions, the nature of mattering and attention, and both the potential benefits and risks of AI relationships, particularly for vulnerable populations like the elderly and young people.

Opening Reflections on AI's Surprising Progress

Paul Bloom shares how his 2023 psychology textbook became instantly outdated when ChatGPT emerged, fundamentally changing his assumptions about AI capabilities. The conversation explores humanity's remarkable ability to quickly normalize technological breakthroughs that should feel revolutionary. They discuss the Louis C.K. phenomenon of complaining about minor inconveniences while experiencing miraculous technology, noting how people now critique AI for small errors while overlooking that they're conversing with superintelligent machines.

  • Bloom's psychology textbook became outdated immediately after publication when ChatGPT demonstrated conversational abilities he thought impossible
  • Passing the Turing test turned out to be culturally insignificant, with no psychological destabilization despite its former status as a landmark goal
  • People quickly accommodate to AI advances, complaining about minor errors rather than marveling at superintelligent conversation
  • AI can now provide life advice, mimic therapists, and serve as companions - capabilities that seemed impossible just years ago
" I asked Chad a question and it got a little bit wrong. What the hell? And, you know, well, and I'm saying you're talking to a super intelligent machine that can have deep, riching conversation with any aspect of your life that could give you personal, that could mimic a therapist, a companion. And, you know, why do you marvel at it more? "
" It's the louis ck routine right where he's talking about being on an airplane and people complaining that the peanuts aren't aren't being delivered quick enough and there's a bit of turbulence and the wi-fi is unsteady he says you're you're flying in the sky like a god "

Uncertainty About the Future and AI's Impact

Early in the conversation, Bloom expresses fundamental uncertainty about AI's future impact, describing it as 'very high variance.' He outlines three scenarios: minimal change from current capabilities, a positive post-scarcity utopia where AI solves major problems, or a negative scenario of mass unemployment and social chaos. With a four-month-old daughter, he finds it genuinely impossible to predict what the world will be like when she reaches college age, making traditional parental planning meaningless.

  • AI's future impact has extremely high variance with wildly different possible outcomes
  • Low probability scenario: AI capabilities plateau at current levels with minimal societal change
  • Positive scenario: AI creates post-scarcity world, solving Alzheimer's, energy crisis, and enabling world peace
  • Negative scenario: AI takes all jobs, leading to civil unrest, war, and chaos
  • Traditional college planning makes no sense when it's impossible to predict what jobs will exist in 17 years
" I don't know what to think about AI. You know, I remember listening to you. You called the warning about AI before everyone else was talking about it, actually. You had some sort of big talk. You just pointed out that we tend not to worry so much about it. I think it is because it's so cool. "

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