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Dr. Valerie Montgomery Rice, physician and president of Morehouse School of Medicine, shares a powerful story of resilience and leadership forged in her grandmother's little pink house in Wrens, Georgia. After being asked to step down as one of the youngest medical school deans in the country, she draws on lessons learned from the strong women who raised her to navigate public failure, transform fear into fearlessness, and emerge as a vocal advocate for diversity in healthcare, women's health rights, and educational equity.
The Little Pink House: Foundation of Resilience
Dr. Rice takes us to her grandmother's pink house in Wrens, Georgia, a place without indoor plumbing until 1968, where she spent childhood summers making mud pies and collecting eggs from the chicken coop. This humble setting, nested off a dirt road with a massive yard perfect for a five-year-old's adventures, served as both her classroom and her mother's refuge during difficult times. The memories of that Georgia sun on her face and her grandmother's stern voice teaching her responsibility became the foundation for the woman she would become, instilling the belief that she would, should, and could overcome any challenge.
- Grandmother's pink house in Wrens, Georgia (population 2,000) was located off a dirt road with a massive yard
- The house didn't get indoor plumbing until 1968
- Young Valerie learned responsibility by collecting eggs from the chicken coop and selecting chickens for dinner
- The pink house served as both her classroom and her mother's refuge during struggles
" I learned then that I would, I should, and I could. "
Lesson One: Accept Loss But Not Defeat
At the peak of her career as the youngest medical school dean in the country, having founded the first Center for Women's Health Research at Meharry Medical College, Dr. Rice's world came crashing down when a new president asked her to step down. The devastation, embarrassment, shame, and especially fear threatened to overwhelm her—fear about future job prospects, about what family and friends would think, about her reputation. She had to reach back to that pink house and remember how her mother had faced a similar crossroads when gathering her four daughters in the middle of the night to leave an abusive husband, demonstrating accountability and taking action while lost but not defeated.
- Became chair of department, founded first Center for Women's Health Research at Meharry Medical College, and became youngest dean of a medical school in the country
- New president asked her to step down from dean position
- Mother had to gather four daughters in middle of night to leave abusive husband
- Applied Paulo Coelho's wisdom: before a dream is realized, the soul of the world tests everything you've learned
" I was devastated. I was embarrassed. I was ashamed. I was fearful. Fear was what I felt most of all. "
" Before a dream is realized, the soul of the world tests everything that you have learned. And it does this such that when you are in pursuit of your dreams, you are also mastering the lessons learned in pursuit of that dream. "
" Lost but not defeated. "
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