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Adam Neumann, co-founder of WeWork, shares his journey from a challenging childhood to building one of the fastest-growing companies in history, its dramatic collapse, and his lessons learned. He opens up about growing up with a bipolar mother, experiencing childhood trauma, meeting his wife Rebecca who transformed his perspective, raising $4.2 billion from SoftBank's Masa Son, losing control of WeWork, and starting anew with Flow. Throughout the conversation, Neumann emphasizes the importance of mission over money, choosing the right partners, learning from failure, and personal growth as the foundation of business success.
Flow: Building Again with Wisdom
Neumann explains why he chose to go back into business after losing WeWork, despite having substantial wealth from the settlement. He emphasizes that in hindsight, he did far more things right than wrong at WeWork (95% vs 5%), and the lessons learned have made him a better founder. With Flow, he's building with the right partners (A16Z's Marc Andreessen and Ben Horowitz), focusing on technology from day one, and applying all the lessons about culture, mission, and personal growth that he learned the hard way.
- Chose A16Z as investors because they support founders, unlike Benchmark who removed him, Travis, and Jack Dorsey
- Neumann and family personally invested $350M alongside A16Z's $470M to ensure full alignment
- Has quarterly board meetings that last from 8am to 5pm with full transparency
- Always ends board dinners by asking 'what can I do better' to ensure continuous feedback
- In WeWork did 95% things right, not 10% - the lessons will make Flow even better
" I now realize that in WeWork, I did a lot more things right than wrong. A lot more. Not like 10% more, like 95%. "
" When you choose your investors, look at their history. Are they the kind that support entrepreneurs like you? Are they going to take you to the next level, or do they have a history that actually clashes with the entrepreneur? If they have a history that clashes with the entrepreneur, park them. "
" We should never judge a founder by his worst moment. But with Adam, that was easy because his light shined and shines so brightly. "
Origins: Childhood Trauma and Early Formation
Neumann describes his difficult childhood with a bipolar mother, including emotional abuse, suicide threats, and sexual molestation between ages 7-9. Despite these challenges, he explains how these experiences forged his resilience and shaped his perspective on adversity. He emphasizes that understanding someone's origin story is essential before judging them, as everyone carries invisible burdens that influence their behavior and decisions.
- Neumann's mother was bipolar, leading to unstable household with nightly emotional outbursts and broken dishes
- At age 12, he physically struggled with his mother over a knife during a suicide threat
- He was sexually molested by a teenager 6-7 years older between second and fourth grade
- These experiences taught him not to judge others, as everyone has invisible struggles
- He cried himself to sleep every night until age 14-15
" Almost every single thing, if you took a piece of paper, and you have to do a checkmark for every bad thing that can happen to a little boy, you get to checkmark with me almost all of them, including the really bad ones that we don't like to talk about. "
" You don't know who that person is. You do not know where they come from. You do not know what happened to them as a kid. God forbid they were molested. God forbid they dealt with all these things. You don't know where they started. "
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