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Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky reflects on the human cost of Russia's invasion, sharing intimate details about the emotional toll of war, the defense of Kyiv, and the ongoing struggle for Ukraine's survival. He discusses his relationship with world leaders, including tensions with Trump over energy policy, and makes a powerful case for why Ukraine cannot simply compromise and forgive the atrocities committed against its people.
The Personal Toll of War and Leadership
Zelensky opens up about the immense psychological burden of leading Ukraine through war, revealing he hasn't slept properly in years and spends every night coordinating air defense. The most painful moments come when presenting awards to parents who lost children in combat, describing these encounters as moments where he 'ceases to exist.' His children and wife remain his anchor, though the war has fundamentally changed him, creating a loneliness even when surrounded by loved ones.
- Zelensky says he doesn't sleep properly and talks with air defense operators every night
- The hardest emotional moments are presenting Hero of Ukraine awards to parents who lost children
- His mother calls him 12 times a day until he picks up, asking when Putin will end the war
- His daughter has grown up during the war and now speaks better English than him
" I'll be honest. I don't sleep. I'm a responsible person. I have different traits, good ones, not so good ones. Like every person, nobody's perfect. "
" It's a huge, terrifying pain that I wouldn't wish on anyone. "
" I need ammunition, not a ride. "
Putin's Imperial Ambitions and the Soviet Legacy
Zelensky provides historical context for Putin's invasion, explaining that Putin views the collapse of the Soviet Union as the greatest tragedy of the 20th century and aims to rebuild the empire. Ukraine is essential to this vision—Putin believes without Ukraine, Russia will fragment into multiple nations. The invasion began in 2014 with Crimea, using language as a pretext to divide society, before escalating to full-scale war in 2022.
- Putin was a KGB officer who believes the Soviet Union's collapse was the century's greatest tragedy
- Empires can only hold together through autocracy, not freedom, which is why the Soviet Union fell
- Ukraine was called the 'forge of talent' for the Soviet Union due to its intellectual capital
- Putin started with language divisions to create pretexts for occupation in Crimea and Donbas
" Empires don't survive on freedom. Why do empires fall apart? Because people want to be free. "
" If Ukraine becomes part of Europe, then Russia will collapse. It will fall apart into many different countries. "
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