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In this revealing interview, Connor Benn discusses his boxing career, the intense rivalry with Chris Eubank Jr., and his controversial move from Matchroom Boxing to Zufa. He opens up about his dark period battling depression during his legal case, his disciplined upbringing in Spain, the complex relationship with his father Nigel Benn, and the extreme physical and mental preparation required for elite boxing. Benn explains his decision to leave Matchroom for financial reasons and shares insights into the business of boxing and his future plans.
Spanish Upbringing and Disciplinarian Father
Connor reflects on his unique childhood growing up in Mallorca, Spain, attending a strict Christian school of about 30 kids. The religious school emphasized discipline, repentance, and fear, teaching him time-keeping and structure through firm rules. While he initially struggled with his father's harsh approach, he later understood that Nigel's disciplinarian methods were necessary to shape him into the focused athlete he became. The strict upbringing, though difficult at the time, laid the foundation for the discipline that now defines his boxing career.
- Attended a very strict Christian school in Mallorca with about 30 kids, focused on repentance and fear
- Had detentions almost daily for minor infractions like forgetting knife and fork or not finishing food
- The discipline from that period made him the disciplined athlete he is today
" My upbringing in Spain was very abnormal. But it was very normal for me. Do you know what I mean? Because it was like, the life I lived over there, looking back now, you go, what a blessed upbringing I had. But to me, it was just my norm, my reality. "
Fractured Relationship with Nigel Turns Around
Connor describes the turbulent years between ages 14-18 when his relationship with his disciplinarian father was really bad. As a teenager becoming a man, he questioned whether Nigel actually loved him due to the lack of affection and harsh treatment. A turning point came at age 18 when Connor got in trouble and expected punishment, but instead his father said 'I love you and we're going to get through this together.' This moment changed everything almost overnight, making Connor realize his father's love had been there all along, though by then he had already moved to England.
- Relationship with father was 'really bad' from age 14 to 18 due to harsh discipline and lack of visible affection
- Questioned if his father actually loved him during teenage years
- At 18, when Connor got in trouble, his father said 'I love you and we're going to get through this together' which changed everything
- Regrets wasting years rebelling against his dad when he could have understood earlier
" When you're becoming a man and then you have your dad who's a disciplinarian shows you no love is very strict with you very harsh with you, you sort of then go well do you actually even love me and it was a real big thing for me as I was getting older. "
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