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The Rest Is Politics: US
The Rest Is Politics: US

The Leadership Mistake Almost Everyone Makes (Adam Grant)

July 24, 2026 • 48m

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Overview

Professor Adam Grant, leading expert on the psychology of success and leadership, discusses the essential qualities of effective bosses, how to run productive meetings, the art of giving useful feedback, and why traits like self-doubt and procrastination can actually fuel success. The conversation explores navigating workplace challenges including people-pleasing, confidence, and developing original thinking.

The Character and Competence of Great Leaders

Adam Grant identifies two fundamental qualities that define excellent leadership: character and competence. While competence—encompassing vision, strategy, and decision-making—gets constant attention, character traits like generosity, humility, and integrity are undervalued. The most effective leaders embody a coaching mindset that balances high expectations with genuine support, focusing on helping people realize their potential rather than simply cheerleading or criticizing.

  • Great leaders need both character (generosity, humility, integrity) and competence (judgment, vision, strategy)
  • Character allows leaders to prioritize mission over ego, which is rare in leadership
  • A coach sees a better version of someone and helps them realize their potential, unlike cheerleaders who applaud the best or critics who attack the worst
" I don't think we talk enough about the importance of leaders embodying generosity, humility and integrity. And when I think about those character strengths, those are the qualities that allow leaders to say my mission is more important than my ego, which is sadly more rare than I would like to admit in leadership. "

The Art of Giving Feedback vs. Advice

Grant distinguishes between traditional feedback—which focuses on what happened yesterday—and coaching through advice, which is more forward-looking and actionable. The messenger matters as much as the message; people can accept hard truths when they come from someone who believes in their potential. Effective feedback focuses on behaviors and future improvement rather than vague personality assessments.

  • Advice is often more helpful than feedback because it puts people in an action-focused frame of mind rather than dwelling on the past
  • The messenger matters first—it's easier to hear hard truths from someone who believes in your potential
  • Leaders should ask employees how they prefer to receive feedback and learn from their best and worst feedback experiences
" I think what most leaders do is they give feedback. They tell you what you did right and wrong yesterday. There's a growing body of evidence suggesting that advice is often more helpful to people. If I start to give you tips on what you can change today, that's more likely to put you in an action-focused frame of mind. "

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