The Joe Rogan Experience
The Joe Rogan Experience

#2567 - Mariana van Zeller

October 16, 2026 • 2h 30m

Summary

⏱️ 17 min read

Overview

Joe Rogan and investigative journalist Mariana van Zeller discuss her documentary 'Super Scam Me' about romance scams, exploring how scammers exploit loneliness, Meta's profit from fraudulent ads, the opioid crisis, cartel operations, and the need for better drug policy. They examine systemic failures in regulation, the human cost of these enterprises, and potential solutions including psychedelic therapy for addiction.

Romance Scams and the Loneliness Epidemic

Mariana introduces her documentary about romance scams, explaining how scammers exploit America's loneliness epidemic. She challenges the perception that victims are simply foolish, arguing that scammers are highly skilled at manipulating universal emotions like love and trust. The conversation highlights how isolation and lack of community make people vulnerable to these sophisticated psychological operations that can last months before any money is requested.

  • Romance scams are rampant due to America's loneliness epidemic and lack of real community
  • Scammers prey on emotions everyone shares: love, trust, and sometimes greed
  • The focus should be on scammer tactics rather than blaming victims for being gullible
  • Leslie's scammer posed as Jon Bon Jovi, building trust over months before asking for money
" I think the loneliness epidemic is a huge part of this, quite frankly. It's a huge issue in this world, a huge issue in our country in particular. "
" I think what these scammers are so good at doing is that they prey on emotions that we all share, you know, love and trust and sometimes greed as well. "

How Romance Scams Actually Work

Through Leslie's story of being scammed by a fake Jon Bon Jovi account, Mariana details the methodical approach scammers use. They start with normal conversation, remember details from early interactions, and create AI-generated videos to build credibility. The scam lasted seven months before any financial request, demonstrating how these operations invest significant time to establish trust before exploiting victims.

  • Leslie interacted with what appeared to be a verified Jon Bon Jovi account for months before money requests
  • Scammers use AI to create personalized videos that appear authentic
  • After months of relationship building, the scammer offered a $100 meet-and-greet opportunity
  • Once invested in a relationship, victims find it very difficult to accept it might not be real
  • Some romance scam victims continue relationships even after realizing they're being scammed
" I equate it a little bit to gambling. When gamblers lose a lot of money and in their heads, they're always thinking, wait, it might have been my unlucky day. "
" The reality of my life is so sad compared to this that maybe I prefer to just go on. "

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